Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Spice up your sex life with Mutual Masturbation

So perhaps your sex life is a little stagnant, or like may couples at the end of the day your simply too tired to enjoy the rigors of sexual activity. It happens to all of us! My wife and I used to be so worn out from work and chasing the kids around all day that by the time we crawled into bed the last thing on our mind was pleasing someone else! However this can play havoc on your relationship. It is important to understand that sex (while most won't admit it) plays more than a significant role in any relationship. We all need it--we all enjoy it--and if were not getting it from our partner then chances are were probably getting it from somewhere else! We need to feel close to our partner and for most of us sex is that conduit that brings us closer to our partner--even if it is for only 15 minutes a night.

Mutual masturbation can be just as stimulating, erotic and enjoyable as the actual act of intercourse itself. For one, it opens each other to completely new experiences  you may have thought completely private before. Most people feel uncomfortable masturbating in front of their partner; however once you get past the initial shyness you will realize you have just opened a door to a completely new erotic and arousing experience. If either of you are simply too exhausted by the end of the day to engage in intercourse, try it! I guarantee neither of you will be disappointed. Simply watching each other get off is so exciting and arousing that you will find you probably won't last very long--which means the both of you can get what you need and enjoy the rest of the night...sleeping soundly!

It is also a wonderful form of foreplay! Sit on opposite sides of the room and while facing each other, watch each other masturbate, or lie next to each other on the bed and masturbate without touching each other. If you can continue this for several minutes without bringing yourself to orgasm, then by the time you let loose and finally touch each other you both will be ready to explode.

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Saturday, August 13, 2011

Why are women offended by their masturbating man?

Someone please explain why women are so uptight about their husband, boyfriend etc, masturbating. Why are men forced to jerk off in shame in the shower? Many women feel that masturbation is a last resort, gross, and should be done in private and don't want anything to do with how or why or how often their man masturbates--they don't even want to see any evidence of the fact that their man is dong such things.

What women fail to recognize is that men NEED to masturbate! It keeps us in a good mood, relaxed, and keeps us from finding pleasure somewhere else. Even in a healthy sexual relationship men will still masturbate--why--because it feels good and we like to, and unless the women wants to have sex every single day, then she shouldn't care if her man is taking care of his own business.

Mutual masturbation can actually increase a couples emotional and sexual well being. By taking masturbation from the seclusion of privacy into the openness of the sexual relationship couples can explore themselves and each other in completely different ways. During "that time of the month" when a women may not feel like partaking in intercourse she can still fulfill her man completely by partaking in his own personal pleasures--lending him hand (so to speak) or simply caressing her man while he does his thing is a huge turn on!

So women stop being so quick to judge your masturbating man--be open to the possibilities--tease him-pleasure yourself in front of him, and turn him on and let him masturbate to you--now that should be the greatest compliment he can give you!